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MY PAIN IS YOUR GAIN

I'm a single father of two beautiful chidren and I live in Novato, CA. I am also the embodiment of several neurotic tendencies. But you will find that out soon enough.

I'll be writing honest blog entries about my trials and successes as a single father. Tune in to hear about my foibles and learn about all the mistakes you shouldn't make. I take the hit, you gain the knowledge.



You can find older posts at the bottom of this column.
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THINGS I'M ENJOYING LATELY

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Chemotherapy.


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Radiation Treatments.



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Nausea.


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Hair Loss

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Less Hair To Comb...

...more face to wash.

I have to say, I am pleasantly surprised by my new look. I hope my readers agree.
When the skin graft fully heals, things should look even better.

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A photo of the right side of my head from July 2008. No sign of any enlarged lymph node in my neck.

I don’t know why, but I never took any pics of the enlarged lymph node. It was about the size of a grape just below my jawbone and showed up around the first week of September.
It was this symptom that led me to see the doctor. After a biopsy of the lymph node determined that melanoma was present, the doctors inspected my scalp to find the melanoma source. They discovered it just above my right ear.

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A biopsy of that little troublesome mole left a few stitches above my ear.

I went in for surgery on October 10th. Four days and several pain pills later, I have enough wits about me to take a photo of myself.

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The side of my head was shaved for surgery. Two cancerous lymph nodes and the melanoma source area were removed.

I’m discharged from the hospital later that day and I return two days later to have the bandage on the side of my head removed.

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Here is what greeted me when the surgical bandage was removed. Besides the obvious skin graft area, I notice my right ear has swollen to about 130% of normal size.

The skin graft is ringed with stitches made of organic material that will dissolve over the next two weeks. Well, one thing I know, the lopsided haircut has GOT to go.

Yesterday, my buddy Phill came over to do the deed.

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Depot Dad waiting for the clippers.

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Phill and I met when we were twelve years old.

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A job well done.

A few more shots of Depot Dad 2.0.....

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