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MY PAIN IS YOUR GAIN

I'm a single father of two beautiful chidren and I live in Novato, CA. I am also the embodiment of several neurotic tendencies. But you will find that out soon enough.

I'll be writing honest blog entries about my trials and successes as a single father. Tune in to hear about my foibles and learn about all the mistakes you shouldn't make. I take the hit, you gain the knowledge.



You can find older posts at the bottom of this column.
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THINGS I'M ENJOYING LATELY

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Chemotherapy.


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Radiation Treatments.



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Nausea.


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Hair Loss

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Simple Pleasures

Seven Minutes of Perfection

I don’t really have anything for you today, but here is something I like. I’ve become a bit obsessed with this recorded 1963 Brazil concert performance of Ray Charles since I found a few clips on You Tube. As luck would have it, more people have been posting other songs from the same show and it is all amazing.

But a highlight for me is this song. What I like about it, besides the fact that it is mindblowing, is how Ray is so generous with his band. Ray frequently gave show time to the talent he had gathered around him and I love how his vocals just contribute to the background here....until the end, when he lets loose.

Thanks, Ray.

And thank you, YouTube. Without YouTube, this show would likely have sat in a can for the rest of our lives.

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A Few Favorites

And all of them from the genius of Edward Gorey.
I’m quoting these from memory, so they may be slightly misquoted.

The first born of Mrs. Keats-Shelly
Came to light with its face on its belly
The second was born
With a hump and a horn
And the third was as shapeless as jelly.

Each night father fills me with dread
As he sits at the foot of my bed
I’d mind not that he speaks
In jibbers and squeaks
But for seventeen years he’s been dead.

The sight of his guests filled Lord Cray
At breakfast with horrid dismay
So he launched off his spoons
The pits of his prunes
At their heads as they neared the buffet.

The man was a GENIUS I tells ya!
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The Spider

Many years before he wrote Charlotte’s Web, E. B. White wrote this poem as a love letter to his wife.
There is so much I would like to say about this poem, but I won’t dare.
I’ll be adding this to my list of things that make me happy.

The Spider (aka Natural History)

The spider, dropping down from twig,
Unfolds a plan of her devising,
A thin premeditated rig
To use in rising.

And all that journey down through space,
In cool descent and loyal hearted,
She spins a ladder to the place
From where she started.

Thus I, gone forth as spiders do
In spider's web a truth discerning,
Attach one silken thread to you
For my returning.



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