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MY PAIN IS YOUR GAIN

I'm a single father of two beautiful chidren and I live in Novato, CA. I am also the embodiment of several neurotic tendencies. But you will find that out soon enough.

I'll be writing honest blog entries about my trials and successes as a single father. Tune in to hear about my foibles and learn about all the mistakes you shouldn't make. I take the hit, you gain the knowledge.



You can find older posts at the bottom of this column.
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THINGS I'M ENJOYING LATELY

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Chemotherapy.


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Radiation Treatments.



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Nausea.


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Hair Loss

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The Blog Squatter

In case anyone is wondering where I’ve been lately, I’ve been, um, having a bit of fun.

You see, for over a year now, I’ve enjoyed reading the blog of fellow single parent Mommy Pie, But it turns out, she has gone on an even longer hiatus than I have! So I’ve done what everyone likes to do when their neighbor goes on vacation, I’ve broken in and I’m having a party.

Since I don’t have the keys to the front door, so to speak, and therefor can’t post on her page, I’ve commandeered the comments section of her most recent post. So come on over any time and join in the fun. It is strictly BYOB (Bring Your Own Blog) Let’s see how many posts we can publish there before she returns.

This might be just the kind of juvenile delinquency I need to get me out of my own blog rut. What do you say? Will you join me in a party at my neighbor’s house?

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Mission Accomplished?

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The other day in the car....

Oliver: Papa, why do you play Warcraft 2? Why do you like it?

(and by this, he meant, why do I like that version of the game, and not one of the many versions that have come out since then. Why do I continue to play a game that is ten years old? And the fact of the matter is, that once a year or so, I pull out my old Warcraft 2 CD and replay some of my favorite missions and scenarios.)

Depot Dad: Well, I really like the balance of that version. The missions are well designed. I like the balance of humor, strategy, pacing, and the way there are many ways to solve a mission.

Sometimes, I replay a mission right after I finish it and try a different strategy. For example, when I first started playing the game, I was terrified of the enemy forces controlled by the computer. I used to spend all of my time and gold on building up impenetrable defenses. But I soon discovered that this only gave the enemy time to build up an un-defeatable offense and I could not win.

I learned that some missions require you to go on the offensive right away, even when you don’t have any defenses built up. This has been a great lesson for me and I can even say that I’ve brought that skill into my real life. If a game is well designed, I feel it actually helps me identify my own habits of thinking and problem solving and it can help me to see how the way I go about solving problems may not be the best way, or even a successful way.

Also, the later versions of the game start to take itself too seriously. The artwork loses that cartoony style and starts to get more realistic. The missions start to play out in a way that forces a predetermined story line and focuses too much on individual characters. I guess I like the open ended feel of Warcraft 2 best.

Oliver: Oh.

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Depot Dad: Oliver, why do you like Club Penguin?

Oliver: Because it is fun.

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I tell you, I have a lot to learn from this boy.

At times like this, I feel I should shut this blog down for good. I don’t know if it is doing me or anyone else any good that I spill so much information or overanalyze everything. Or maybe I’m trying to excuse my lack of posts lately. It has done me a lot of good to just participate in my own life this month and leave it at that.

But more than that, I’ve also been surprised at my lack of inspiration and motivation here, and I am really starting to feel that the job of this blog has run its course. I think I might be done.

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Depot Dad MIA

Yes, this has been a long break for me. And I still got nothin’. Please don’t give up on me.
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Rearranging the Furniture

I’ve moved all of my videos to a dedicated video page. I’ll continue to make videos regularly (They are very fun to make) but I also wanted to get back to written blog entries too.

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The Day I Learned the Most

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