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MY PAIN IS YOUR GAIN

I'm a single father of two beautiful chidren and I live in Novato, CA. I am also the embodiment of several neurotic tendencies. But you will find that out soon enough.

I'll be writing honest blog entries about my trials and successes as a single father. Tune in to hear about my foibles and learn about all the mistakes you shouldn't make. I take the hit, you gain the knowledge.

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You can find older posts at the bottom of this column.
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THINGS I'M ENJOYING LATELY

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The New Playground in Golden Gate Park

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Rewatching favorite sequences from the game Grim Fandango on YouTube

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Friday Night Outdoor Movies in Downtown Novato


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Watching The Seven Samurai for what must be the 20th time. God I love this movie!

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Working on the latest Lunchbox Comix, even if it is only for 20 minutes a week.

The Spider

Many years before he wrote Charlotte’s Web, E. B. White wrote this poem as a love letter to his wife.
There is so much I would like to say about this poem, but I won’t dare.
I’ll be adding this to my list of things that make me happy.

The Spider (aka Natural History)

The spider, dropping down from twig,
Unfolds a plan of her devising,
A thin premeditated rig
To use in rising.

And all that journey down through space,
In cool descent and loyal hearted,
She spins a ladder to the place
From where she started.

Thus I, gone forth as spiders do
In spider's web a truth discerning,
Attach one silken thread to you
For my returning.
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Brain Dump

Just some odds and ends that don’t deserve full posts....

O and A and I hit some garage sales yesterday. They seemed to charm the owners out of tons of toys that I didn't drop a penny on.
"Oh, just take it." or "You can just have that, sweety."
We came home with a fools ransom of castles, dolls, clothes, tiaras and more.
They then proceeded to play beautifully together in their room with their new treasures for five solid hours.
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Competence

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I’ve been meaning to follow up on my first post of Philosophical Musings on Single Parenthood. In the first part, I wondered about the definition of the designation Single Parent. In this part, I want to talk about the second thing I noticed about the mother in the cofeeshop. That thing is competence.

Besides wondering about her single parent status, I couldn’t help but notice how in control that mother was. And it stands in stark contrast to the world I find myself in.

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(Fingers in Ears) La La La La La

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Let me do something very ridiculous right now. I am going to give all of you the secret formula (soon not to be so secret) for how to make Depot Dad lose his mind. It is a simple recipe, so you can try this at home yourself. Ready? Here is what you have to do...

Don’t hear me.

That’s it. Don’t hear me.

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